DON’T DO THIS JOURNEY ALONE
I sit here with tears of gratitude streaming down my face. I always tell people… DON’T DO THIS JOURNEY ALONE. And so many people insist on it. And when I get off from sales calls or messenger conversations when someone is determined to create the business and life of their dreams on their own… it breaks my heart. Because I KNOW… you will stumble so much more. You will struggle for so much longer. MAYBE… eventually you’ll hit your dreams… but in every ounce of my being… I KNOW it will take you SO MUCH LONGER ALONE… and you will have so much more heartbreak. How do I know? Because when I do it alone… when I think I can be superwoman and do it all by myself (Not very often because I learned this lesson)… It’s HARD WORK.
With an incredible support team in place… I am held so beautifully and I am loved… And I am seen in a way that I cannot see myself. And I step up… I step in. I do the work. I see myself more and more. I love myself more and more… and life is truly the most magical experience. It’s like I’m floating on the clouds, even in tough times…
And because I’m just feeling so grateful for such incredible people around me… I want to give them a shout out.
There are quite a few people here, but if you want to know how incredibly I’m supported and be connected with some absolutely AMAZING people… then read this. You will learn a lot about me… and yourself… and where you can step up and step in.
Nicky Glover, Natalie Jayne Armstrong and Tessa Alexa and all other gorgeous peeps in The Legendary coach group.
Nicky and Nat your space holding, your coaching is full of love. And Nat… the call we had the other day… the way I know you are going to hold me to do things that scare the pants off of me… things never done or seen before… FUCK… I breathe in where I’m stepping and where you are asking me to go… Standing fully in the truth of who I am. You are a gem in my life and I’m so grateful.
Tessa- your way of living life… addicted to vulnerability… the depth of your love… it gives me space to step in deeper and deeper… and I love you. I honour you for all the incredible work you are doing in this world and for being you.
Nicky- I just fricking love you. Thank you for seeing me, witnessing me, and loving me.
Hugh Norley – I can’t imagine another person in the world I’d rather journey this crazy path with. Thank you for loving me, through all my craziness… all my ups and downs… every single day of my life for being there. You are my rock and I love you from the greatest depths of my soul (for at least 4 more years. 
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Makeda Aset – #soulsister You inspire me to trust even more… to follow my heart… to believe that everything is possible and that I will ALWAYS be looked after. Your level of crazy inspires me. And I love everything about you beautiful soul. Looking forward to sitting in ceremony with you again one day very soon. Somewhere in this giant world.
Anel Bester – #soulsister I don’t know how I’d do this without our calls every week. I’m so grateful for you in my life… to know that you absolutely have my back and I yours. I love you. I see you. We got this.
Renée Mayne – We only met online a few months ago, but honestly… it feels like a lifetime somehow. I look forward to sitting in the same physical space with you and spending hours and hours connecting and getting to know the stories between our #soulsister connection. You speak the most beautiful truths and I just love you. I love who you are and what you stand for. Thank you for being such a beautiful reflection for me…
Katrina Ruth– You are one of my greatest inspirations. Whilst I’m figuring out how to truly embody being a messenger in my own way… I’m figuring out how to show up in my power in my own way… you inspire me, every day. To show up and step in and be the most aligned, committed and dedicated version of me. You shining your light… You bringing your message to the world… you are a beautiful soul on this planet and having you in my life has turned it upside down in the most incredible way. I thank you and love you!
To my mama, Nancy Schechtman– I would not be who I am today if it wasn’t for you. Every up and down… every curve in the road… it’s formed me into who I am. And finally… I can love me… And I am so grateful for every part of you. EVERY PART. Thank you for raising the bar so high and asking me to jump to it. I see it. I love you.
Vanessa Diamond Sumner– You… being you… standing in your authenticity… thank you. For the deep and incredible healing work you do… thank you. It’s been transformational in my life. And you inspire me in your truth all the time. I love you.
Jessica Mulcahy – For the numerous tears, for pulling me up when I want to curl in a ball and cry…for constantly confirming I’m on the right path… For witnessing me and loving me… for encouraging me CONSTANTLY to do what I know I get to do… you are a blessing. I love you.
Brad Rasmus for having the courage to try Pruvit and introduce me to it 18 months ago. And since November 2016 when I really committed to drinking this product… I have barely ever missed a day… sometimes I have 2 or 3 a day. These sachets have changed my world. On every level. Thank goodness there are people like us who just had the courage to say yes to a sachet being able to change your life on every level. and trust that life really can be this good… and you can feel so fucking good every day. Full of energy, clarity, focus, happiness… that sachet changed my life. And I’m so grateful you put your entire career out on a limb to join this crusade. Thanks, mate. You know, I love you all.
Cari Jacobson for such incredible healing sessions that always shift the way I think and open me up to a new way of being. I love you.
Jacob Drescher– For being such an incredible friend and an amazing person in my world to help empower me in my finances. He has my back and it means the world to me. So much love to you, one of my dearest friends.
Bex Rasmus – I love you… one of my best friends in the world. I love hours and hours of talking with you. I love how time passes and we don’t even realise it. I love going through all of life ups and downs with you. All of them. I love the realness. The truth. The challenging of each other. You are one of a kind. I love you and I’m grateful you are in my life.
Pauline Martin-Brooks – I love you. One of my best friends in the whole wide world… I love seeing you. I love you seeing me. I love holding each other to higher and higher levels in life. And believing so deeply in the other. We got this gorgeous one. It’s ours. Every one of our dreams.
And some other incredible friends in my world right now… Lila Gonzalez, Erin Berry, Dani Strong Andrew Eggelton Tanya Hill and so many online friends… who just support each other…
I am so incredibly supported in my life right now. And there are others…. who I pay, offline… and there are places like ecstatic dance weekly and Awaken GymnasticBodies Denver and the wonderful people there…
And there are so many countless coaches and mentors that I have paid in the past from Russell Brunson’s company when he was still starting up as compared to where he is now… We were featured in his paid monthly newsletter for our amazing conversion rates to our website and in sales… BEFORE social media was here to help us drive traffic. :-)… to $20,000 invested alone in copywriting mentors like Alan Forrest Smith and Pete Godfrey to Chris Howard teaching me Neuro-linguistic programming 12 years ago… to thousands of dollars spent in training as bodyworker and in natural therapies and nutrition… to all the incredible transpersonal teachers and friends I have had and still have in shamanic and leadership work… and so many more…
You see… there is no way… that I would be here where I am if I hadn’t invested in myself. And so many people get resentful of having to pay mentors or coaches thinking they got “burned”… but really… if you look at that time… you grew… you are who you are today because that person came into your life… GOOD OR BAD.
And… if you really want to create your dreams… if you really want to live the epic life that you desire… You ABSOLUTELY MUST INVEST IN YOUR MIND/SOUL/HEALING work. YOU MUST.
Until you do this work… until you learn the level of work that I speak of… you will stay stuck in that rut…looking at the same 4 walls every day of your life. If you want to jump out of the box you are in and into another box… you must have mentors, healers, coaches on your team to help you see life another away and then give you the guidance to jump from where you are to where you want to be…and to help you learn the path and remove the connections currently tying you back from your dreams.
But the thing is… it takes a shit ton of courage to walk this path. And so it’s not for everyone. It’s not. Maybe, You’re just not ready. But for the people who are looking at the next level and you don’t know how to get there… and it scares the shit out of you to look at… to see it… to know that you have to dig deep and find the courage to leap up and catch the bar that has been raised above you… this path is for you.
And if you have truly stepped on this path, 100% committed to your dreams. I mean you are really fucking committed to taking your life to the next level… then surrender in. STOP TRYING TO DO IT ALONE. STOP. It fucking breaks my heart when you say you want to do it alone.
I promise you… if you could do it alone… you’d already been where you want to be. And I promise you… that if you are not paying someone to actually hold you to the deepest reflection of yourself and not let you go until you see the piece of you that you are not seeing right now… which is the EXACT PIECE that will get you to the next level… the piece you are not embodying today… but absolutely must in order for you to create your dreams… if you are not paying for this person or multiple people to help you journey this… it will take you so many more years if at all, to break through to your dreams. Because the only thing holding you back is your own limitations of yourself. That’s it.
When you remove these limitations… you are set free.
And it’s why I sit here in tears of gratitude for the people that are supporting me in life right now. And those that I am supporting. I love each of them too. They are all reflections of me at some level too!
Without your love, mirroring, guidance, support… I would not be stepping into the me that I am. Owning every piece of me… stepping up… stepping in. And creating every single one of my craziest dreams.
Yeah… so… if you want to stop doing it alone… and are ready to truly propel yourself forward… aligned to the deepest parts of yourself… then you know where I am. Let’s do this. Let’s blow the lid off your dreams in the most aligned and magical way.
PS- I know there are more of you beautiful people in my life right now… I would be here all day if I named you all. But if you feel this… you know who you are.
Original Date Written: February 16, 2018
