REAL FRIENDS

WHEN YOU HAVE A REAL FRIEND IN YOUR LIFE…
HOLD THEM TIGHT AND NURTURE THAT RELATIONSHIP…
NO MATTER HOW FAR OR CLOSE YOU ARE.

I have been going through some big shifts in my relationship with women recently. I’m having a LOT of lessons about myself through the mirror of the lens I am looking through into my triggers within the relationships.

And as I let go of friendships that simply no longer serve me… I had found myself heart broken.

I often think the breakup with a girlfriend is harder than with a man. (Of course, I haven’t broken up with a man for awhile. LOL)

There is a sisterhood amongst women… and to have your heart broken by a sister… it feels devastating to me.

Anyway… As I let go of friendships that no longer serve my life… I find myself calling in some new incredible women into my world.

Not only that… some others from around the world that are lifelong friends and becoming even better friends…

AND some old friends that are finding their way back into my life

AND IT FEELS GOOD.

And I was thinking of the wonderful walk i had to day with a new friend. It was my first time attempting the walk around the lake.

14 weeks post surgery. We pulled out about a quarter of the way around. We were out for bout 40-45 min. It was the longest walk I have had since surgery and I am feeling it.

But making slow progress.

Anyway… the walk… and we were talking about how challenging it has been for us to make real friends after moving to Denver.

And in the beauty of the conversation… her son had a complete melt down. And we walked him home through that. And it was so real. And I loved it.

I miss my Aussie mama friends.

I miss my local Aussie girlfriends that everything is on the table. All the time. No holding back. Good, bad, indifferent. I miss the laughs, the cries, the absolute exhale that comes with a REAL FRIEND.

And the thing is… I have these friends around the world, but hadn’t really connected with anyone local that met that for me, until recently.

And not having that woman here has been really challenging for me. It has felt lonely, even though I’m far from alone and I do have incredible friends around the world.

But there is something different about it being local.

And people are all of a sudden stepping into that role and I gotta say… it feels good.

But also… my distance relationships are improving and having a tighter, more loving bond… and that feels incredible too.

And I feel so grateful to have so many incredible women as REAL FRIENDS in my life. I am truly blessed.

But here is the thing about REAL FRIENDS.

YOU GOTTA BE THE PERSON WHO CALLS IN THE KIND OF FRIEND YOU WANT. AND JUST LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE IN LIFE… YOU GOTTA KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT IN A REAL FRIEND.

WHATEVER YOU ASK FOR IS WHAT YOU WILL GET.

Like everything in life.. be the person who creates their dreams.

If you are looking around and seeing relationships that on the surface level are great, but underneath… you are wanting more from your relationships… then look at yourself.

And if you want help creating this in your life… come and play. Work with me. Let’s wave a magic wand on your life and create a new reality.

You can create anything and everything you desire.

Hold TIGHT TO YOUR VISION and don’t let ANYTHING take you off course.

It’s either soul-aligned or it isn’t. INCLUDING… REAL FRIENDS.

Photo at the lake today. It was a beautiful and brisk walk. probably about 32F/0C. #winterwalks #bundleup