THERE IS ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE TO LIVE AN ABUNDANT LIFE.
Yesterday in the car after school pick-up, Robbie (10yo) is talking to me about a business his best friends have started at school, selling gel pens. They asked him to do something to support them, but it meant he was worse off for it, financially.
We had a conversation about the finances of it and about what his choices are.
At one point he said to me… But mom, it’s ok that I don’t make money because they don’t have as much as me.
My heart sank and I was so grateful to be having this conversation with him at such a young age.
I have been plagued with that thought for as long as I can remember. When you grow up in so much abundance, it’s easy to feel like however you can you want to support the people around you. I have NEVER said this to Robbie… he came to this conclusion on his own.
We have talked about and do support people who don’t have as much as we do in the ways that we can. But never did I or would I tell him to play small for the sake of others.
That said… it’s a belief that drove me for so many years, like until the past few months, that he probably picked up on it in some way.
I grew up doing philanthropic work. Spending afternoons volunteering, spending weekends helping my mom or family with some fundraiser that was going on… it was a major piece of my youth.
And… whilst it’s a BEAUTIFUL thing to get to do for the world… philanthropy… and choosing where and how to give time, money, and energy… it does NOT benefit, him, me or you to not shine your light, do what you are here for and receive an overflow of abundance in all ways.
If you think abundantly… there is enough for everyone to live an abundant life. The fact that I have more money than someone else, as does Robbie, does not mean that we cannot continue to grow our wealth.
It does mean… I chose to do it and did what it takes to get there. It does mean not putting others before yourself. It does mean that in the end… the more money I have, the more people and the earth that I can actually help.
One of my greatest driving factors is to give back to the world. The altruistic way of being that my grandmother and mother taught me has also been one of the biggest reasons that I had not been able to create the next level of wealth I desire.
It was driven into me to put others first. It was driven into me to give away my brilliance. Those do not help a person grow their business.
The whole point of what I do and who I am is to help others. I have wanted that since I was a little girl. But not putting self first leads to burn out and people-pleasing. It lead me to be in co-dependent relationships and never knowing what ‘I’ want.
It doesn’t work on a personal level.
And yesterday Robbie got to learn that just because he has more, doesn’t mean that he gets to let others take advantage of him or that he has to dim his light. We talked about how it can be a win for everyone.
We also talked about the ways to make money in business. He’s a gorgeous budding entrepreneur that loves growing his wealth. He loves sharing his knowledge and helping other people feel good.
The day before… one of his friend’s moms mentioned to me that Robbie had been having a very interesting conversation with her. I asked Robbie what he was talking to her about. He says.. ‘Crypto and Gold, of course.’ My kid is totally obsessed with buying Gold right now and I gotta say… it’s pretty cool to watch. And I love that he’s so passionate about it, he has no fear in talking to people at school about it.
Raising this kid is one of my greatest joys.
I love that I am working to break generational patterns that have been beautiful ways of living for people that it worked for but is no longer aligned for the way we are in the world right now.
And… if you have gotten this far… take a moment to look at where you are giving away your brilliance, your expertise, your energy because you think… others need it more than you, so it’s ok.
It’s definitely one that I get to pay attention to. I can still find myself doing this, if I’m not careful. But it definitely doesn’t serve me and it wasn’t going to serve Robbie yesterday. What about you?
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