Don’t do it alone!

Here’s the thing about mindset work and creating your dreams…

It’s way harder to do alone.

YES… you can. Yes… you are capable of everything…

But the ways you sabotage yourself, the ways that your “stuff” hides in the shadows… the ways that you don’t EVEN SEE IT… so how could you possibly work on it… that just won’t improve if you don’t have someone helping you to see that which you can’t, won’t or don’t see in yourself.

So, IF and only IF you hold yourself accountable to ACTUALLY DOING THE WORK… you are likely going to spiral around and take longer to jump to the next level, breakthrough your sabotage… because plain and simply you either don’t see it or don’t WANT to see it.

How does this play out?

You are not creating your dreams. You have drama around you, at whatever level… You are so desperately seeking more, bigger, better. You are grasping so hard to it, it’s all you can think of. It may even create anxiety within you NOT having it…

That dream partner… you are tired of being alone or in a mis-aligned relationship or a relationship in which you don’t feel fully supported, and all you see around you is the ick of where you are at… and you are so desperately grasping for that dream… that you actually strangle it.

The business of your dreams… Yeah that one where you have freedom and flexibility to do what you want when you want… it is why you signed up for this wild ride, right? And it’s not happening on your terms… and you consider a job.

And you are exhausted, not feeling amazing about the whole experience. You may even be lost in what you are meant to be doing. Overwhelmed with all the moving parts?

And then… instead of dealing with it, you hide under the cover, you play on FB for hours and wonder where that time went and swear that you don’t have enough time to get your work done.

You are uncertain of what you want and how to get it, so you manifest wishy washy results.

You following me? Yeah… I know you are.

What about the travel and freedom?

You want to travel and be able to go and come wherever and whenever you want. You want to bring your kids with you. You want to have time to go and see your kids play their sport games. You want to be able to work from anywhere in the world, right? Insert whatever else freedom looks like to you…

But you get stuck. You are afraid. You don’t even know why. But something keeps stopping you from that epic life.

I know gorgeous… you are sitting at that decision point. You are making money… you are so close to living your passion life… but something still gets in your way.

And the thing is… if you want that… you want to create the mindset and supercharge your results. You need help.

It doesn’t matter if I’m talking to friends or clients… I can’t help it but to shine a mirror in exactly what is going on for them. I see it. I hear all your excuses. I see what you are doing and even more importantly what you are NOT doing.

And it’s that piece that will get you super charged results. It’s that part plus the accountability to someone other than yourself that will get you results.

I did my 8 week keto journey and just finished. Many of the people I know that I started with, fell off the band wagon pretty quickly.

I KNEW when I was chosen to video and document my journey through the 8 weeks… there was no falling off. I was doing it for me… but being held accountable by a team of people… I was responsible for creating results, doing the work… so that my story can be shared and empower others to do the same.

Did I fall off track? Overall… NO. My life has improved dramatically because of it…and just because it’s over, I won’t stop. That said… I can already feel the difference in the experience without coaches cheering me on, answering questions, keeping me inline.

I was talking to a friend last night who is having some personal stuff going on right now…and after awhile of listening… I stopped her.

She was telling the same sob story over and over and was caught in it. She was never going to get the peace she is looking for and reaching for if she doesn’t change her outlook and her story.

But here’s the thing about MANY friends… they won’t stop you in your tracks and help you change your story. They help us justify our stories. Even some of my besties, who are incredible people and living epic lives… can jump into my story with me.

As a friend… you want your friend to say yes… you are in pain… yes you are justified to feel that way… yes.. that is your truth right now… so that you can feel even better about being there in that shit place where your dreams aren’t becoming reality.

They agree with you…

Yeah… that guy is a complete dickhead…
yeah, it’s hard to grow your biz on a budget.
Yeah… you need to have a list to grow your biz…
Yeah, it’s so hard to stop eating sugar, here have some chocolate.
Etc, etc…

You get my point right?

You create your reality and then you bring people and situations in around you to show you that you are right.

Make sense?

It’s why having a coach is so ridiculously important for you achieving your dreams.

An athlete could not excel to high levels without one. The coaches job is to tell her what she is doing well… and then help her improve what can be improved. It’s not to jump in with her and allow her to justify what’s not working.

It doesn’t matter what your dreams are…

If you want to be an incredible mother, create your own business from your passion, travel the world, leave your job, create the relationship of your dreams, have the hot body you desire…

If you are not where you want to be, get support.

Get help with your mindset.

Because the only thing stoping you from where you are right now and where you want to be is your mindset. Is the ability to believe and know it’s yours… and totally align energetically to every one of your dreams.

It seems simple, but I promise… it takes work.

It takes daily, sometimes moment to moment work.

And…it works.

You will always get what you think about and believe to be true.

So if you think… I’m a badass coach… and underlying that is… I’m not worthy of earning money… what’s going to show up for you?

Time to bust through those limiting beliefs. Don’t you think?

Are you ready to go to the next level in your life? Your biz?

Ready to create your epic life on your terms?

I’m taking a few one on one clients right now. Respond to this email for more details.

Don’t sit back and leave it for one day anymore… don’t sit back in frustration, telling yourself the same limiting story over and over again… Let’s do this. You and me… and a ton of tools to help you create your dreams.

I mean really… I live a pretty incredible life… I am certainly qualified to help you do the same… and I promise… I got here by doing the work. All the time.