WOMEN… YOU MUST TREAT YOUR MAN LIKE A FRICKIN HERO!

WOMEN… YOU MUST TREAT YOUR MAN LIKE A FRICKIN HERO!

THIS WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE IF YOU DO WHAT I SHARE RIGHT NOW.

TREAT YOUR MAN LIKE A HERO.

Many of you will read this and think to yourself… but he isn’t a hero.

And for the few of you that already feel this way… congrats.

So for those of you reading this thinking… MY MAN IS NOT A HERO…

That’s why you’re in a bickering, blah relationship.

No reason to leave him. He’s not a bad person. But over and over again…

YOU SEE HIS FLAWS.

YOU LOOK FOR HIM TO FUCK UP.

YOU FAULT HIM AND LOOK DOWN ON HIM.

YOU SEE HOW HE ISN’T YOUR SUPER HERO.

And so… this is what you get.

That may be a slap across the face, but you’ll thank me for it later, if you actually listen to me right now.

When I worked on taking this belief on earlier this year, it was challenging, like it will be for many of you.

Hugh is this incredibly talented, brilliant, creative and loving man. I can’t imagine finding anyone as multi-talented, brilliant, genuine, highly intuitive and loyal with a smoking hot body as my hubby. I’ve ALWAYS FELT THIS WAY about the gorgeous man I spend my life with.

But my hero?

NO WAY.

He may be all of those things, but he’s also human AF and does things that drive me insane. He still gets stuck in his own shit and it drives me crazy that he won’t just ‘do the thing’.

As a coach of human behaviour and shifting mindset and energy to align and resonate with your dreams… there are moments that he drives me absolutely MAD in his refusal to just do the damn thing that will help him.

PEOPLE… YOU CANNOT CHANGE YOUR PARTNERS.

YOU CANNOT WANT SOMETHING MORE FOR SOMEONE ELSE THAN THEY WANT IT FOR THEMSELVES.

And so… when the concept of him being my HERO came up, my immediate reaction was NO. Which of course… broke my heart but in knowing that current reality… I could DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

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Ladies… think about this… especially those of you with boys for kids will appreciate this…

BOYS SPEND THEIR DAYS DREAMING OF WHAT SUPERHERO THEY WILL BE AND PLAY OUT.

THEY JUST WANT TO BE THE HERO.

IT’S PART OF THEIR DNA.

That NEVER changes.

Your man WANTS TO BE YOUR SUPER HERO.

PERIOD. END OF STORY.

They may never tell you.

And you may have cut his balls off so long ago he doesn’t have the courage to say what he actually feels.

But what he wants… to be your SUPER HERO.

So when you get your head around this… and you ACTUALLY LOOK AT YOUR MAN LIKE HE IS YOUR SUPER HERO… YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN DO NOTHING LESS THAN SHIFT.

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Hugh still smiles as he repeats what I said when I woke up from surgery.

My first words…

‘I did it. I did it. I have gorgeous boobies. YOU ARE MY HERO.’

From every cell of my body in that moment in time he was my hero.

And I could only say that in the most insanely drug infused state and feel that (like truth serum LOL) because I have done the work this year to change MY BELIEF.

GET THIS WOMEN.

I didn’t ask him to be ANYMORE OF A SUPER HERO THAN HE ALREADY WAS.

I just looked for him to be my hero and kept finding moments to SAY IT TO HIM.

It was kinda weird at first for both of us.

But ladies…

For the past 2.5 weeks…

My man has done EVERYTHING in his power to be MY SUPER HERO at the highest level.

I have been COMPLETELY RELIANT on him for EVERYTHING. It’s only in the past few days I started driving and I won’t drive past the distance of taking the kids to school. It hurts. And especially walking through school to get the kids… it takes a lot out of me. But LIFE GOES ON.

Last night we had one of those husband and wife moments that you think… this is one of those bonding moments in time of great love and devotion.

He had just gotten into the bed and was ready for SLEEP and I knew I had to change the gauze on the leak in my breast that had started earlier in the day. He wanted to help me from bed, but I knew if he was going to go anywhere near it… his hands needed to be cleaned.

So I started the process on my own, until I had to quickly call for him… he quickly washed in and stood there with me as I literally bout lost my legs and he ran for a chair as this fluid just kept leaking out of me. YES. ALL APPARENTLY NORMAL. I promise I’m in touch with my INCREDIBLE doctor.

And together, we doctored up this gaping hole in my skin where I am leaking fluid currently.

By the time we were done, my face literally looked white as a ghost.

MY HERO.

He jumped in with courage and just beautifully and carefully looked after me.

I know what it’s like looking at a loved one suffer and having to doctor them up. It takes courage to know that your loved one is hurting, in pain, suffering in some way… and at the end of the day… you are relatively helpless… just doing the small little things you can that all add up to MASSIVE things to the person in pain.

He had the same look in his face when I gave birth to Robbie and was basically in a life and death situation. He was MY HERO.

Day in and out for the past 2.5 weeks he has been here moving me, showering me, feeding me, making me hot brekkie of eggs and bacon every morning I want them (He does that anyway ) cleaning the house, doing the laundry, running the kids around, distributing my meds to me to make sure I get all of them, taking me to the doctor every week…

He’s been taking care of EVERYTHING, including ME.

HE’S BEEN MY ABSOLUTE HERO.

So, ladies… what makes a hero for you? And NO, you don’t need to have surgery to have a hero for a hubby. 

What would happen if you found that in your man?

How different would your life look then?

STOP LOOKING AT HIM TO BE THE PROBLEM.

LOOK AT YOU.

Then act accordingly.

One of my absolutely FAVOURITE PIECES OF MY WORK IS…

HELPING PEOPLE FIND AND BE IN LOVING RELATIONSHIPS.

There is SO MUCH TO THIS.

SO FUCKING MUCH.

If you are looking for your super hero

or if you are in a marriage and wish you had a super hero for a husband…

Be in touch.

I’ll help you find your way.

YOU CAN HAVE YOUR SUPER HERO TOO.

But the work starts with YOU.

THE ONLY ONE YOU CAN EVER CHANGE IS YOU.

So when you start acting like the woman that deserves the man of your dreams, you’d be amazed at WHO SHOWS UP.

And I say this whether you are currently single or in a relationship.

Ladies, you may have your hero right in front of your dang face and you just can’t see it through your foggy glasses.

ARE YOU DONE?

READY FOR YOUR HERO?

Be in touch with me NOW to get started on the journey of a lifetime.

Big love…

PS- I’d love to hear your thoughts below or even PM me. Where are you at with this now?

PPS- YES… this is my spunky, hot hubby and incredible, loving, devoted father to our two gorgeous boys and best structural therapist that can actually ‘fix your body’ and so much more… that I know.